“Our most persistent and spectacular efforts are concerned not with the preservation of what we are but with the building up of an imaginary conception of ourselves in the opinion of others. The desire for praise is more imperative than the desire for food and shelter.”
原帖由 jsl 于 2008-12-3 10:17 发表
The way to conquer this weakness is to build up an imaginary self so quickly and blatantly that even himself knows it is a fake.