女人旺夫相:娶这样的老婆想不发财都难

柳言

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谁都会有错，无一例外。

ranchgirl

柳言  厉害。还要高一点？

why not?

ranchgirl

<<Behind Every Great Woman>>
Read here:

http://www.businessweek.com/maga ... woman-01042012.html

ranchgirl

Bare Escentuals Chairman Leslie Blodgett with husband Keith and son Trent in their Tiburon (Calif.) home

ranchgirl

Thailand's 28th premier.

ranchgirl

Chancellor of Germany

ranchgirl

I really don't know the above 3 women have 旺夫相 or not.

ranchgirl

或者她们的丈夫有没有旺妻相？

ranchgirl

知道像德国总理这样年龄的女人，在中国大多数男性口中会用什么样下流的语言去描述吗?

福多多

well,
a.  any 版主has right to post articles that he/she feels appropriate.  It is about freedom of speech.  In News groups sometimes we post news or articles that we do not agree with.  Sometimes I post with a sad feeling about a piece of news.

b.  This society is dominated by male.  It is a fact. It is true that there are some excellent female in this society, they are not too much yet.  This is not about racial or gender discrimination,  it is a fact of today's society.  One may improve the ratio by providing better education to female, however, it is unlikely to reverse the order completely.  It may take a long long time perhaps.

c. 旺夫相is not for everyone if you learn Chinese divination, and the ideal couple is about “般配”。The so-called 旺夫相in this article is in general about 平和，it may lead to a peaceful life style.  Peaceful life style is sought by the general public, it does not necessary mean to be successful or powerful.  Successful or powerful life would require hard work beyond ordinary approach and it is not affordable by most people.  Nowadays American know Chinese "危机" is about "risk " and "opportunity”。Thus, for someone whose 面相 is not so "平和”，she or he should find the other person who is willing to take the "risk" to live together.  能耐天磨真铁汉，but 真铁汉 could have a challenging life.

By the way, how do you know we still have many unmarried young ladies in HT?

ranchgirl

It is about freedom of speech.

Very good，do I have freedom of speech?

ranchgirl

By the way, how do you know we still have many unmarried young ladies in HT?

haha, you want to find one for you or for your son?

ranchgirl

This society is dominated by male.  It is a fact.

Yes, it is a fact to certain extent in almost any countries. However, the certain extent is very different in different countries. China is certainly one of the worst with the exception of 穆斯林 countries

Just do a simple statistics, male Chinese are more likely to become sea turtle, a lot less Chinese women are willing to go back China.

台湾语言: "空中飞人，内在美"
大陆语言：“美国是好山好水好寂寞，中国是美食美酒美娇娘”

不用解释了吧？

有人做过统计。中国国外留学生中，最突出的可能是男性，但是按平均统计，女性肯定比男性更加成功。为什么呢？就是因为女性身上少了几把枷锁，地位比在国内要平等的多。公平竞争，中华女性实际比中华男性有很多的优越性。。。

俺们中华女儿回归祖国的比例较小的原因就是再清楚不过了。。。很多很多的故事，就不一一细说了。。。

不多说了。到此为止。。。

福多多

在中国能经常过”美酒美食美娇娘“日子的不是平常百姓了。我就听说某特权单位的一把手退休时在偷偷抹眼泪，还不是因为以后再没有这样的特权而舍不得离开？那类人根本不会对在美国生活感兴趣。对普通收入的人来说，美国的社会福利比国内强太多了，在美国虽然寂寞，但回到国内岂不更糟？

我觉得中国女士留洋不归的一个主要原因是国内传统思想和势力很强大，在那个环境下，人们都喜欢把自己的认识强加到别人身上，这类无形的压力较大。

ranchgirl

我觉得中国女士留洋不归的一个主要原因是国内传统思想和势力很强大，在那个环境下，人们都喜欢把自己的认识强加到别人身上，这类无形的压力较大。

Dear Mr. 福多多：
Are we talking the same thing?

我说的加在女性身上的“几把枷锁” ==  您说的“国内传统思想和势力很强大，在那个环境下，人们都喜欢把自己的认识强加到别人身上，这类无形的压力较大。”

谢谢！

curiosity2009

哈哈，这里辩论得还很激烈。
继续。。。

福多多

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我不是顾左右而言它的人吧。

中国男海归，因为付出同样的代价，觉得中国取得的收益要比在美国大。（制度不完善，新兴市场，人才缺乏等因素）

ranchgirl

我不是顾左右而言它的人吧。

那就顾左右而言她吧。嘻嘻

中国男海归，因为付出同样的代价，觉得中国取得的收益要比在美国大。（制度不完善，新兴市场，人才缺乏等因素）

那为什么不是女海龟呢？
其实我讲的统计，是讲男女留学生在海外的表现统计，和回归后的事不相干·。

柳言

我是女的，也要找个旺我的夫君。哈哈

柳言

好啊，有什么意见就拿出来“坦诚相见”吧，男女看似平等的社会，有必要说个明白。

不过，人到底还是人，说到感情更是人，逃不过那几条：金钱财力，学历工薪，样貌气质，心地好坏，道德教养，事业追求。
大家合得来否。旺不旺彼此？还看一起融洽合作顺畅否？一个好家庭离不开关系良好、共同进退的夫妻。