专访林依晨：当我演一个“不够善良”的女人
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max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 0.544px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; text-decoration-style: solid; text-decoration-color: rgb(52, 73, 107); box-sizing: border-box !important;">采访林依晨的过程中，“有趣”是她频频提到的关键词。你也总能在林依晨边说边大笑的氛围当中，感受到强大的能量场和有趣的人格魅力。</span></strong></span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; 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box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“如果到了八十几岁还有适合的角色，有好剧本找我演，我还是会演。看我能不能成为第一个超过百岁还在演戏的女主。”</span></strong></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; visibility: visible; text-align: justify; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; 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margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; font-size: 15px; font-family: system-ui, -apple-system, system-ui, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; caret-color: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0); text-align: right; visibility: visible; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important; color: rgb(163, 163, 163) !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; visibility: visible; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-indent: 0em; visibility: visible; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: center; box-sizing: border-box !important;">题图</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); font-size: 12px; letter-spacing: 1px; text-align: center; visibility: visible; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> | 《不够善良的我们》</span></span></section><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">时隔五年，林依晨回归荧幕的姿态非比寻常：在近期的高分华语剧《不够善良的我们》中，她饰演了一个让人共情多过于可恨的“第三者”角色——简庆芬。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">简庆芬看似是欲望和婚姻争夺当中的勇者和胜利者，但又是委曲求全，对自我生活不自知不甘心的落败者。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">而在多面丰满的角色之外，林依晨也有了全新的身份，成为一名新手妈妈。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当曾经的“拼命三娘”对于生活有了新的思考，一度追求完美的她，也在孩子身上学会了接纳与放下，放下自己的执着和紧绷，拥抱张弛有度的生活。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">趁着新剧热播，新周刊记者与林依晨聊了聊：<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当一个“不够善良的女人”，是一种什么体验？</strong><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“不够善良的我们，并不可耻”</span></strong></span></span></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我每天要做别人的老婆、妈妈、女儿、媳妇、员工、一个爱地球的好人，我真的是已经累到，你们懂我的意思</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">吧</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">？”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">困在平淡如一汪死水的婚姻围城当中，40岁的简庆芬内心时常上演小剧场，想象着情敌Rebecca与她的新欢在眼前亲热，让她恍然间害怕他们弄脏床单，有点神经质地整理起床铺，对着床单说出了这么一番话来。</span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这段话引起很多女性的共鸣。（图/《不够善良的我们》）</span></strong><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">这是林依晨非常能够感同身受的一段话。在社会一贯赋予的期许下，周旋于婚姻家庭和事业之间，即便再强大的女性，也难逃这样的“至暗时刻”。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">读剧本的时候，导演徐誉庭跟林依晨说戏，让她演的时候要想着《天鹅湖》的曲调。年轻的庆芬哼着的曲调是很轻快俏皮的感觉。而当她进入婚姻12年之后，《天鹅湖》变调了，变得有些哀怨，带着隐隐的愤恨、嫉妒。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“导演说，你要想象婚后的庆芬，嘴里哼着变调的《天鹅湖》，然后手里熬着一锅给婚姻的毒药。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; font-family: mp-quote, -apple-system-font, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif; font-size: var(--articleFontsize); letter-spacing: 0.034em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">简庆芬与林依晨以往饰演的角色有很大的不同。作为一个争议满满的带有着复杂人性的“第三者”角色，简庆芬呈现出八面玲珑同时容易嫉妒的心理，在情感上看似胜利实则并不光彩，婚后依旧对照着“假想敌”，找不到生活的支点。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“她很立体，坦诚面对自己的欲望，对于眼前的机会勇敢追求，主动出击。她也像我们周围的一些女生，在好姐妹面前偷偷讲别的女生的坏话，希望自己过得比别人好。<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">人性当中绝对包含了这部分，只是有些人转化为动力，它的存在并不可耻。</strong>”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">简庆芬的“不够”在于不自知也不甘心，人性带有灰度色彩。（图/《不够善良的我们》）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">剧中，许玮甯主演的角色Rebecca，是没有进入婚姻，在恋爱和事业上追求独立，实现自我价值的女性，她是简庆芬的对照组。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">两人都在抉择和回望当中思考：<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">那个自我放弃的人生，会是更好的选择吗？</strong><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">林依晨也曾想过那个平行时空中没有步入婚姻的另一个自己。焦虑和迷茫，似乎总会伴随着女性每个阶段的自我成长。站在十字路口，每个抉择、每段关系背后，都映射了我们对于自我人生的认知。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“这个认知的过程不一定会在某个岁数就很清晰，可能到了40岁才确定想要或者不要的，并不是容易在短时间内决定的事情。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">或许我们总在拷问自己：如果当初没有选择这条路会怎么样？（图/《不够善良的我们》）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">《不够善良的我们》开头闪过人生重要的仪式画面：跑马拉松比赛得了第一名、毕业时扔学士帽、结婚生子等，简庆芬的一大段独白像是对人生的拷问——<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“很多人以为我们追求的是快乐。但你发现了吗？很多过程都伴随着痛苦，而且快乐通常只占了那么小小的一部分，人生前面的大段过程，都是安静忍耐的痛苦。所以有没有可能我们追求的，其实是痛苦的感觉呢？”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">对于痛苦和快乐伴随的人生议题，林依晨觉得自己看待得更乐观些，“我会想办法在过程当中找到好玩的东西去发酵它，<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">‘充实’这两个字不一定代表全然的快乐</strong>，但至少是有意思、有趣的，这个对我比较重要。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">走独立女性之路的Rebecca，是简庆芬的对照组。（图/《不够善良的我们》）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">活在当下的林依晨，选择直面自己抉择的道路，并在其中寻找快乐之道和应许之地。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她喜欢剧终简庆芬为Rebecca祈福时所说的那句话，也是佛法里常提到的<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“一念菩提”</strong>。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">林依晨喜欢“一念菩提”的深意，她说，很多事情会怎么变化，在于你如何看待它，都是一念之间的事情。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有意思的是，这部剧原本的片名为<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“彼岸似有花”</strong>。对林依晨来说，这或许是她在简庆芬这个角色当中体会到的最深刻的人生感悟——<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我们常常看着彼岸盛开的花，羡慕它漂亮，却忘了自己这一边的土地需要施肥、浇灌、除虫，最后，自己岸上的花慢慢凋零。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 20px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我应该会战死在职场上”</span></strong></span></span></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">前段时间她被网友“同情绑架”，被群嘲在婚姻状态里卑微服从，委屈自己讨好别人，她曾发长文澄清这些传闻。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在她看来，<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">真正的独立不是非此即彼，界限分明，人本身就意味着有选择的权利，</strong>她坦然接受自己的世界能容纳很多价值观。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“不婚或不育是选择，想组成自己的家庭、孕育下一代也是选择，重点是自己做的决定，而非屈从于他人的要求、社会的普遍趋势。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如今林依晨的脸上，有想要让人一探究竟的故事感。（图/《车顶上的玄天上帝》）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">林依晨一向觉得自己是多面的。</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">母亲传统保守的家庭教育方式，让她有了以家为重，尊老爱幼的观念。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">但她同时又是爱冒险和探索新鲜体验的人，即便母亲希望她淡出演艺圈修身养性，但她依旧渴望在事业上坚持自我。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我理解为人母亲的心态，但只能心里就是默默地跟她说‘抱歉，妈妈你可能永远都没办法如愿，我没有给自己限定几岁退休，我应该会战死在职场上！‘（笑）。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">出道22年，她心目中三个代表的角色——<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">袁湘琴、程又青、简庆芬</strong>，也在复刻了她自己人生的三个不同阶段。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">18岁的林依晨，凭处女作《十八岁的约定》出道，一张带着婴儿肥的娃娃脸让她自带观众眼缘，青春气息扑面而来，成就了偶像剧黄金时代的经典女主形象。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">《恶作剧之吻》的袁湘琴让林依晨迎来了偶像剧女主的高光时期，她成为了第一个凭借偶像剧拿下金钟奖视后的女演员，但“傻白甜”的偶像剧标签同时也成为了她的限制，让她陷入事业瓶颈期。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">袁湘琴是林依晨起初给人留下最深刻印象的角色。（图/《恶作剧之吻》）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在事业上追求完美，喜欢冒险挑战的林依晨身上总铆足了不服输的拼劲。“有导演和我说，我在戏里的表现很松，但戏外我太努力，太战战兢兢了。他觉得放松是我一辈子的功课，他说得一语中的。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">林依晨是圈中出了名的“拼命三娘”，23岁就开始给自己立遗嘱，不停歇拍戏，最疯狂时6天6夜没合过眼。由于身体不堪重负，她还出过极为危险的“工伤”。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">因《射雕英雄传》合作过的胡歌也分享过林依晨对他的影响：<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“她曾对我说演戏是探索人性的过程，她是用生命在演戏”。</strong><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">黄蓉也是她喜欢的角色，黄蓉身上的亦正亦邪让她着迷。（图/《射雕英雄传》）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">有段时间她陷入身材困扰，用她的形容是“与食物的关系不友好”的时期，坐在经纪人旁边吃饭都觉得压力很大。长期的紧绷、压抑与追求完美的执着，对她进行了一场反扑——因为脑下垂体囊肿，她得入院开刀。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">回望过去的林依晨，把那场手术看作是人生的一个转弯。在休养期间，她放缓了节奏，出了两张专辑，写了一本书，演了舞台剧，然后才慢慢回到熟悉的电视圈。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在临近三十岁的年纪，徐誉庭向她抛来了橄榄枝，给了《我可能不会爱你》中的“程又青”一角，她毫不犹豫地抓住了机会。于是，林依晨借由“程又青”顺利转型成轻熟女，这同时也是她由偶像派变身实力派演员的分水岭。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">程又青是她打破外形和标签的见证。（图/《我可能不会爱你》）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">时隔6年，林依晨再次斩获了金钟奖视后。面对外界给她贴的标签和质疑，她平静地撂下狠话：<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我们绝对可以不止做到这样，愤怒比悲伤更容易激发我的斗志。”</strong><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">或许因为脑部意外手术的警醒，让她看到了生活可以有另一番光景。跨越了自己那道坎之后，她递交海外留学的申请，<span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">淡出演艺圈独自前往伦敦，</span>毅然勇敢地拥抱了这场留学和旅行，让自己重新“归零”。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她曾在事</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">业高峰期缓下来，到伦敦留学。（图/林依晨instagram</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">如今四十岁的简庆芬，又在映照着林依晨数十年的沉淀，“演员”更丰富的光彩色泽逐渐显现。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">将重心逐渐转移到家庭和生活的林依晨，拍戏的频率减少到一年一到两部戏，在这期间她也有过焦虑的时候，但她内心依旧笃定，只不过多了从容和淡然。</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">当前在她的待播作品里，还能看到她有了新的身份——制片人。这一身份让她能在作品的呈现上有了更全面的视角。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在《同栖散策》中，她想探索东亚人小心翼翼不去触碰的夫妻关系当中的“性”议题。“我觉得这个议题的讨论可以再多元化，更开放一些，避而不谈对女性或者儿童青少年来说都很危险。”</span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">林依晨已经有了新的工作身份——制作人</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">。（图/《同栖散策》</span></strong><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">）</span></strong></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); font-size: 20px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“85分人生也很好”</strong></span></section><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">采访的过程中，在林依晨脸上，你能看到时光交叠显现的棱角，不笑的时候有简庆芬的坦诚勇敢，程又青的利落倔强，笑的时候带着黄蓉的俏皮，大笑的时候恍惚间袁湘琴就在眼前，让你不自觉跟着她嘴角上扬。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">成为妈妈，是林依晨人生当中的进阶课。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></strong></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">原本在生活中极其自律的林依晨，会因为女儿放松下来，感受到生活当中从未体验过的缓慢和弹性，女儿也总会令她生出不可预期的惊喜。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她试着放下自己的执着与控制，</span><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></strong></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; font-size: 15px; letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她说，这个课题一直在进行中，可能一直会到老。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“我是可以听着闹钟就立马起床做事情的人，但有了她后我很享受跟她一起赖床的时光，她找到了我从来没有发现过的、新奇的细节点……或者赖床，跟你撒个娇。看着她的小脸，我都会很放松很快乐，在想：自己急什么？为什么要这么早起床？”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.578px; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">小小的新生命让林依晨从内到外都有了重组。（图/<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">林依晨instagram</span></strong></span></strong>）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; letter-spacing: 0.578px; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">到了40岁，无论事业还是生活，习得松弛感，达到张弛有度的状态，是林依晨最大的变化。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">两年前碰上疫情，她刚好处在怀孕的中期。难得与自我独处的状态，让她不由得想要剖析自己的内心，于是便有了《做自己，为什么还要说抱歉？》这本书。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她发现自己有一些与生俱来的特质，其实并不需要刻意否定或者强加证明。在那个阶段，她学会了坦然接受。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“当我慢慢成为他人眼中乖巧的模样、完美的形象，却觉得愈来愈陌生，那不是我，至少不是全部的我。</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">”</span><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">比如她总会在不同的公众场合被人说“好女人”，长得很“乖”，但随着年龄愈增长，她愈发警惕他们口中的“好”和“乖”的定义，背后隐藏着沉重和难以撼动的“理想女性形象”的期待和界定。</span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">现在的林依晨娃娃脸逐渐消退，但依旧让人觉得亲切俏皮。（图/<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">林依晨instagram</span></strong></span></strong>）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">在生活当中，她一面想要在家居和日常环境当中，成为把一切都处理得井井有条的妻子和妈妈，一面又是原来那个追求新鲜刺激体验、不畏惧高风险的自己。“滑翔伞和潜水都试过了，我现在想学冲浪，想玩飞行伞。我也很喜欢去露营。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">登上高山，在山上过个两天一夜，潜入深海，与鲨鱼一起做朋友，这些都是她给自己充电的方式。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">我觉得大自然是最没有副作用的充电疗愈所</strong>，它是活的有机体，给你带来很多创作的灵感，我很享受从都市当中被拖拽出去的感觉。”<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">她依旧向往亲近大自然的旅行体验。（图/林依晨微博）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">一直以来，林依晨在大众心中的形象似乎被建构得很完美，比如“零负评”“模范生”等等标签，但她对于这些都很警醒，称完美主义曾经确实是她的致命伤，只是自己避免犯错的借口，是自尊心在捣鬼。</span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“现在都会跟自己说不用100分，85分就很好，有一点空间让自己偷偷懒。”</span></strong><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">回望过去，她想会对18岁刚出道的自己说：不要太担心，勇敢去尝试，去闯荡。你会变成你心目中理想的自己。<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"> </span></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: center; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br></section><p style="text-align: center; margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: normal; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">学会放松下来，接纳不完美的自己。林依晨说，四十岁刚刚好。（图/受访者供图）</span></strong></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;">被问到如何在容易精神内耗的当下，保有自己的能量，林依晨最后跟我分享了茨威格在《随笔大师蒙田》当中感受到的那句话，很符合她的INFJ人格，也在印证着她的蜕变——<o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></span></p><p style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; clear: both; min-height: 1em; line-height: 1.75em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 15px; color: rgb(0, 0, 0); letter-spacing: 1px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">“他说如何保留最内在的自我，只要你自己不让你自己不知所措，外界就无法从你身上得到什么，也无法使你心烦意乱。<strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;">宁愿很多痛苦相伴，还是要做自己心目中的自己，而不是做众人给了很多掌声，但你憎恶的人。</strong>”</span><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-size: 10.5pt; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><o:p style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></o:p></span></span></p><section style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><br style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; box-sizing: border-box !important;"></section><section style="margin-right: 16px; margin-left: 16px; outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; text-align: right; line-height: 1.6em; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; font-family: Optima-Regular, PingFangTC-light; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; color: rgb(52, 73, 107); font-size: 10px; box-sizing: border-box !important;"><strong style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 0.544px; color: rgb(136, 136, 136); box-sizing: border-box !important;"><span style="outline: 0px; max-width: 100%; letter-spacing: 1px; font-size: 12px; box-sizing: border-box !important;">校对：遇见；运营：小野；排版：段枚妤</span></strong></strong></span></section></div><p></p>
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